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Kindness Cards

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Category: Card Game

60 cards for compassion and empathy

In theory, we are all interested in being kind. In practice, a lot gets in the way: tiredness, anger, bitterness. But a lack of kindness lies at the heart of so much of what goes wrong at work, in friendships, and in love.

These cards are designed to bring out our better natures. They present us with a series of thoughts that nurture our sympathy, our powers of compassion, and our appetite for forgiveness. They return us to who we always want to be and deep down already are: kind people.

Example cards:

  • The kind person gives generously from a sense that they too will stand in need of kindness. Not right now, not over this, but in some other area. They know that self-righteousness is merely the result of a faulty memory: an inability to hold in mind, at moments when they are truly good and totally in the right, how often they have been deeply and definitively in the wrong.

  • One fundamental path to remaining kind around people is the power to hold on, even in very challenging situations, to a distinction between what someone does, and what they meant to do.

  • The modern world is very uncomfortable around the idea of a good person not succeeding. We would rather say that they weren’t good than embrace a far more disturbing and less well-publicised thought: that the world is very unfair. Kind people always keep the notion of injustice in mind.

60 cards | 104mm x 73mm

Customer Reviews (4.4 / 5 · 5 reviews)

Nicholas ★★★★★

We started pulling one card at dinner and it's turned into the best ten minutes of our day — the prompts get my teenagers actually talking instead of grunting. Sixty cards felt like a lot at first, but we've barely repeated any in two months.

Grace ★★★★★

We’ve kept these cards on the coffee table for two weeks, and they’ve already sparked some genuinely deep conversations with my teenager. The prompts are short enough to read in one breath but open-ended enough that we’re still talking an hour later.

Richard E. ★★★★★

I wasn't expecting much from a deck of cards, but these have genuinely shifted how I talk to my kids after a long day. Having 60 different prompts means we never repeat ourselves, and it's been a surprisingly gentle way to reset when we're all cranky.