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How To Get Married

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The foundations for a lasting relationship

Many of us are attracted to the idea of marriage and yet feel a bit uncomfortable with some of the rituals that are traditionally associated with the big day. Perhaps the old ceremonies place too much emphasis on religion or else seem out of step with some of the complex realities of contemporary relationships. In response to this dilemma, The School of Life has rethought what the ideal wedding day would consist of and redesigned the process for modern couples.

The book proposes new ways of getting prepared for a wedding at a psychological level, suggesting how couples should ready themselves for the often tricky journey ahead. It presents an entirely practical and thoughtfully redesigned wedding ceremony, from picking out a suitable venue to suggested vows and readings. Finally, it offers some ideas for how to approach the start of married life.

Paperback book | 160 pages | 216mm x 135mm

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Customer Reviews (4.8 / 5 · 5 reviews)

Carter L. ★★★★★

I was nervous that this would be all about the ceremony, but the chapters on building a foundation before the wedding are genuinely practical. The way it breaks down the awkward traditions and helps you talk through them with your partner feels like a real conversation, not a lecture.

David A. ★★★★★

This book actually made me rethink the whole wedding machine, not in a cynical way but in a practical, grounded one. The chapters on communication before the big day were surprisingly honest and gave us real talking points we’d never considered. It’s a solid read if you want to build something real,

Sofia E. ★★★★★

I was dreading the whole white-dress-and-catering conversation, but this book reframes it all around the actual foundations of a lasting relationship, which is exactly what I needed. The way it gently challenges the uncomfortable rituals without dismissing them felt really refreshing and practical.