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關於如何更有效溝通的權威指南
我們很少被教導爭論為何發生，以及如何讓爭論不那麼激烈。這是一本關於愛情中爭論的指南：它教導我們爭論為何會發生、有哪些徵兆、如何學習更明智的溝通方式，以及爭吵後理想的修復方法。
聚焦於二十種常見爭論——包括性、金錢、姻親和浴室狀態——我們在學習如何避免未來某些衝突的同時，也能辨識自己的荒誕行為。每場遺憾爭論的悲劇在於，它圍繞著我們極度渴望傳達的訊息與我們實際傳達方式之間的可怕錯配而建構。
精裝書 | 160頁 | 161mm x 115mm
I’m someone who tends to avoid conflict, so this book felt like a safe way to peek into why arguments even happen. The chapter on how disagreements can actually deepen a relationship was a real eye-opener, and I’ve already used its advice to stay calmer during a tense chat with my partner.
I’ve never thought about why I argue with my partner until reading this, and the way it frames arguments in love as something we can actually get better at really clicked for me. It’s short enough to finish in a weekend but dense with ideas I keep coming back to mid-disagreement.
Got through the chapter on arguments in love and it actually made me pause mid-argument with my partner to rethink my phrasing. It’s a quick read but the insights stick, though I wish it went deeper into workplace disagreements.
