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傳遞人生中最尷尬訊息的指南

生活不斷要求我們向他人傳遞一些極其尷尬的訊息:我們不再愛他們了;我們確實愛他們(儘管不該如此);他們有點體味;他們被解僱了;我們對他們非常生氣(儘管我們愛他們);或者他們的音樂太大聲了。

通常,出於尷尬,我們只是保持沉默。偶爾我們會爆發。而典型的情況是,我們結結巴巴,尋找合適的詞語——擔心自己沒找到,從而造成比應有更多的傷害。

這是一本幫助我們找到最佳詞語,以傳達生活中一系列最困難訊息的書。透過來自人際關係、友誼、工作、家庭和服務情境的二十個案例研究,我們被溫和地引導,了解在理想世界中,我們可能會說什麼,以表達我們的意圖,同時將傷害降到最低。我們被引導,其中包括如何最好地結束一段關係、如何與孩子和好,以及如何溫和地拒絕一位想要更多的朋友。

我們會心一笑,認出我們的困擾——並被介紹一些深具同理心的方式,來應對我們最尖銳的社交困境。

精裝書 | 96頁 | 181mm x 110mm

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Customer Reviews (5.0 / 5 · 5 reviews)

Ava ★★★★★

I picked this up after putting off a hard conversation for weeks, and the scripts for saying "I don't love you anymore" without being cruel actually got me through it. It's a short book, but I've already gone back to the section on telling someone you do love them.

Lucy L. ★★★★★

The chapter on delivering bad news to a friend hit uncomfortably close to home, but the scripted examples gave me actual words to say instead of my usual awkward stammering. I've already used the breakup template twice this month—both conversations went smoother than I ever thought possible.

Avery O. ★★★★★

I’m usually terrible at finding the right words in tense moments, but this guide breaks down those awkward conversations step by step, and the examples actually sound like something I’d say. The section on expressing feelings when you’re scared to was a game-changer for me. It’s short enough to read