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學習去愛
很少有事物能像我們的關係那樣承諾給我們更大的幸福——然而也很少有事物能更可靠地帶來痛苦和挫折。
我們的錯誤在於假設我們天生就知道如何去愛，並且管理關係因此是直覺且容易的。這本書從一個不同的前提開始：愛是一種需要學習的技能，而不僅僅是一種需要感受的情感。
它冷靜而迷人地帶領我們探討關係的關鍵問題，從爭吵到性、寬恕到溝通，確保在愛情中成功不再只是運氣問題。
平裝書 | 144頁 | 198mm x 129mm
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I expected another fluffy self-help read but this one actually made me put the book down and think about how I handle conflict with my partner. The part about assuming we're born knowing how to love hit way too close to home. Been recommending it to pretty much everyone I know.
This book doesn’t preach or lecture—it quietly walks you through why we expect too much and how to actually listen instead of just reacting. The chapter on our “born knowing how to love” assumption hit me hard; I finished it feeling like I’d been handed a manual I didn’t know existed.
I’ve re-read the section on accepting imperfection in others about five times now—it’s that rare kind of book that feels like it’s speaking directly to the arguments I keep having with my partner. The writing is gentle but blunt, and it’s already changed how I react when we disagree.
